I Lived It. Now I Write It For You
Teen pregnancy. Young marriage. Special needs parenting. Child loss. Pregnancy after loss. Going back to school while working and mothering. These guides aren't theory — they're my life, written so you don't have to walk alone.
Our Guides
Each guide is crafted with love, research, and lived experience.
Night Feed Affirmations for the Tired Mum
Press play at 3am. A calming voice in the dark, just for you.
Read My Story$4.99
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When Hope Falters: A Mother's Guide Through Child Loss & Grief
We buried our one-and-a-half-year-old son. After 18 months of hospitals, hope, and fighting — it was over. This is how I learned to breathe again.
Read My Story$9.99
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Suri's Brave First Step
A Little Lights of Bayhaven story — for every little light learning to shine.
Read My Story$3.99
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More Than a Diagnosis: Raising a Child Others Don't Understand
When your community calls your child a bad omen. When relatives want to perform cleansing rituals. When being a special needs parent in Africa means fighting battles you never asked for.
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Mara's Quiet Light
A Little Lights of Bayhaven story — for every little light learning that we all shine in our own way.
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Pippa's Loud, Bright Light
A Little Lights of Bayhaven story — for every bright, big-feeling child who has ever felt 'too much.'
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The Little Lights of Bayhaven
A gentle, chant-along seaside series for ages 0–6 — each little light learning to shine in its own way. Story companions to our gentle-parenting guides.
Book 1Suri's Brave First Step
Suri learns that brave isn't 'not scared' — it's tiny steps anyway.
Book 2Mara's Quiet Light
Mara, a little otter in a wheeled cart, shows that everyone shines in their own way.
Book 3Pippa's Loud, Bright Light
Pippa, the loudest, brightest puffin, learns her big light belongs too.
What Other Mums Are Saying
"I lost my daughter at 6 months and I didn't think I could breathe again, let alone try for another baby. This guide put words to everything I was feeling. I cried through most of it, but it was the kind of cry that heals. I'm now 5 months pregnant and finally hopeful."
— Faith N.
"After losing my first baby, getting pregnant again was terrifying. This guide understood my fear without dismissing it. The affirmations for the scary days carried me through my whole pregnancy. I'm holding my rainbow baby now."
— Ruth K.
"I was 17 and pregnant and everyone had an opinion. This guide didn't judge me — it just walked with me. The section on telling my parents alone was worth the whole price. I'm now in my second year of university with my son."
— Mariam A.
I Didn't Read This in a Book — I Lived It
At 18, fresh out of Form Four, I found out I was pregnant. Before I could even think about university, I became a wife and a mother — with no job, no degree, and no clue what I was doing. My husband and I were just kids ourselves, figuring out how to provide for a baby while trying to build a life from scratch.
Eleven years later, we welcomed our daughter. Life was finally stable — we had built our home, bought a car, had decent jobs. Then came our third child: a baby boy diagnosed with Down syndrome. What followed were endless hospital visits, flights to India for heart surgery, ICU stays, cardiac arrests, therapies, and at one and a half years old — we lost him.
I lost my job that same year. I went back to school. I got pregnant again — and learned to hope when fear was all I knew. These guides come from every tear, every sleepless night, every lesson I wish someone had taught me sooner.
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Guides Written
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Children Raised
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Years of Experience
"Every guide I write comes from a place I've actually been. The teenage mum with no plan. The wife holding a marriage together. The mother sleeping on a hospital floor. The grieving parent learning to breathe again. I write so you don't have to walk alone."
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Written from the heart of a mum
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